Beliefs

The Power of Beliefs: What you believe happen isn't as important as what really happened.

Anger

When is it appropriate to get angry?

Answer: When it works. Simply put, when the person you are angry against resolves and response the way you want then to respond.

Succeeding in Life

Your ability to succeed in life depends heavily on your environment. To be in a healthy, supportive environment, you must be able to

1. Detect the good people from the bad ones whether it is the salesmen that tries to scam you to buy an overpriced item or the good friend and role model who is really guiding you in your interest rather then his own self-interest.

2. Attract healthy, supportive people in your life. Good people has to like you in order to help you. To attract these people, you must appreciate the things you have in life.

3. Attracted to healthy, supportive people in your life. You have to like these people. To do so, you must be clear of anger, forgive and want to move towards a healthy, positive life.

Regret

I regret hurting others. I regret being hurt by others.

The key is to forgive and to appreciate. Find the value in the experience and appreciate the lesson learned.

Depression, loneliness and motivation

I woke up the next day with no drive to get up. I just lied in bed all morning. It doesn't seem very purposeful to wake up knowing there is no one around. No one to talk to. No reason to get up.

Fact is, being around people, especially people you enjoy being around is important in creating meaning, value and purpose to living. It will motivate you to do things. Even if others are not doing it with you, just knowing they are in the next room or near by is motivation enough to action and want to move.

Money

Money can't buy everything, but without it, you can't buy anythng

Painful past experiences

Let go of your personal history. It is only a story and everyone is to busy to care about your past.